Paint Splatters
Creative Dreams are Colorful, Fun and Messy!
I often hear heart-breaking stories of why people got disconnected from their creative spirit. As a teacher, I often heard how a teacher told someone they had no talent or that they were doing it wrong. I see people struggling to justify their creative work to the people in their lives or even to the internalized voices in their heads. These messages are so prevalent that I struggle with some of them too, even though I make things every day. Here are seven common harmful messages.
We all say we want things and then don’t make it happen. All of us. And the beginning of every single year is a time where so many of us get caught up in the whirlwind of making big goals and, oftentimes, do not succeed in achieving them by the end of the year.
This has caused so many people to give up on making goals which is totally understandable - why set yourself up for failure?
What will you do imperfectly in 2021?
Once upon a time I used to get stuck. A lot.
And I was stuck because I wanted to do something perfectly. I wanted to have it all figured out ahead of time and think of every last detail and address any future criticism that I could predict.
I was exhausted from going nowhere.
“Hey Karen, are you free on Sunday evening to be a panelist on the Doris Davenport Show? She wants to interview facilitators from our Restorative Justice conference.”
I had received this text earlier in the week and, now, here I was, sitting on Zoom with three other amazing panelists. Despite the butterflies in my stomach, I had replied, “Yes.”
How much time do you devote to the problems in your life versus the celebrations?
How much mind-space, heart-space, people-time, alone-time do you spend thinking about what isn't going well?
These things do need our attention, but boy do they become a burden when not balanced by really enjoying what is good!
So take a moment. Soak in what is going well! Let it fill up your mind, your heart, your conversations!
You might even get some fresh ideas for your challenges. Or some issues may even become non-issues... Either way, it is sure to bolster you along your creative journey.
Let us know what you are celebrating today! All good things both big and small are worthy of your time, energy, and enthusiasm.
I am celebrating big things today! The first is my 40th birthday! With this new decade, I am excited to create many new things in all aspects of my life, with one thing being the Creative Community Circle!
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